How to Choose Your First Vibrator

Stepping into the world of sex toys can be exciting, but also a little overwhelming. This guide will walk you through the basics of selecting your very first vibrator.

An array of colorful vibrators of different shapes and sizes

1. Material Matters

The material of your toy is crucial for safety and pleasure. For beginners, silicone is the gold standard: it's non-porous (hygienic), body-safe, and feels soft. Only use water-based lubricants with silicone toys.

2. Shape & Size

For a first toy, something simple is often best. Bullet vibrators are small, discreet, and perfect for external clitoral stimulation. Start with a smaller size to discover what you enjoy.